Demi Waktu - Maafkanlah Aku.

Aku yang tak pernah bisa lupakan dirinya
Yang kini hadir diantara kita
Namun ku juga takkan bisa menepis bayangmu
Yang slama ini temani hidupku.

Maafkan aku menduakan cintamu
Berat rasa hatiku tinggalkan dirinya
Dan demi waktu yang bergilir di sampingmu
Maafkanlah diriku sepenuh hatimu
Seandainya bila ku bisa memilih.

Kalau saja waktu itu ku tak jumpa dirinya
Mungkin semua tak kan seperti ini
Dirimu dan dirinya kini ada di hatiku
Membawa aku dalam kehancuran.

Satu Hari di Johor Bahru

19th October 2008 - Bertolak dari Melaka pukul 8:15am. Nak hantar mama ke Skudai, ada Exam dan kelas. Sampai ke Skudai pukul 9:55am. Tak sangka masih boleh sampai ke Skudai sebelum pukul 10:00am... in one piece.

Dengan tak sarapan, lepas hantar mama, kami terus ke Jaya Jusco Skudai. Cari apa yang patut. Lepas tu terus ke rumah Mak Ndak di Senai... Mak Ndak masak sedap2 untuk anak2 buah dia... walaupun dia baru balik kerja malam ... Caya lah Mak Ndak.

Lepas makan dan solat berjemaah di rumah Mak Ndak, kami buat tour satu pekan JB.

Nak keluar jalan2, tak berapa sesuai... sebab dengan hujan lebat tu ... at last kami pun decide pergi ke Angsana Mall. Azfar dan Azri punya cadangan... sebab dia nak tunjukkan Ajim tempat mainan yang best dia pernah main ... agaknya lah ... beriya2 dia main berempat...

Lepas tu pukul 4, dah kena ambil mama di UTM, dia dah call ... Ajim masih tak nak keluar dari tempat mainan ni ... dah tak de cara nak buat ... pakat dengan brader jaga taman tu, suruh dia cakap dengan Ajim ... masa dah habis ... baru lah semua nak keluar.

Sekali lagi kitorang makan bekalan yg Mak Ndak bekal kan tu ... habis licin ... sebab semua dah penat-penat ... makan kat padang kawad UTM ...

Lepas tu bertolak balik, sampai rumah pukul 7:15pm ... Habis dah hari minggu kami ...

The No 1 - Muhammad Azfar Bin Amir

The No 2 - Muhammad Azri Bin Amir

The Great Leadership Challenge

If you want to be a leader who attracts quality people, the key is to become a person of quality yourself. Leadership is the ability to attract someone to the gifts, skills, and opportunities you offer as an owner, as a manager, as a parent.

What's important in leadership is refining your skills. All great leaders keep working on themselves until they become effective. Here are some specifics:

Learn to be strong but not impolite. It is an extra step you must take to become a powerful, capable leader with a wide range of reach. Some people mistake rudeness for strength.
It's not even a good substitute.

Next, learn to be kind but not weak. We must not mistake weakness for kindness. Kindness isn't weak. Kindness is a certain type of strength. We must be kind enough to tell someone the truth. We must be kind enough and considerate enough to lay it on the line. We must be kind enough to tell it like it is and not deal in delusion.

Next, learn to be bold but not a bully. It takes boldness to win the day. To build your influence, you've got to walk in front of your group. You've got to be willing to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, discover the first sign of trouble. Like the farmer, if you want any rewards at harvest time, you have got to be bold and face the weeds and the rain and the bugs straight on. You've got to seize the moment.

Here's the next step. You've got to learn to be humble but not timid. You can't get to the high life by being timid.
Some people mistake timidity for humility. But humility is a virtue; timidity is a disease. It's an affliction. It can be cured, but it is a problem.

Humility is almost a God-like word. A sense of awe. A sense of wonder. An awareness of the human soul and spirit. An understanding that there is something unique about the human drama versus the rest of life. Humility is a grasp of the distance between us and the stars, yet having the feeling that we're part of the stars.

Here's a good tip: Learn to be proud but not arrogant. It takes pride to build your ambitions. It takes pride in your community. It takes pride in a cause, in accomplishment. But the key to becoming a good leader is to be proud without being arrogant.

Do you know the worst kind of arrogance? Arrogance from ignorance. It's intolerable. If someone is smart and arrogant, we can tolerate that. But if someone is ignorant and arrogant, that's just too much to take.

The next step is learning to develop humor without folly. In leadership, we learn that it's okay to be witty but not silly; fun but not foolish.

Next, deal in realities. Deal in truth. Save yourself the agony of delusion. Just accept life as it is. Life is unique. The whole drama of life is unique. It's fascinating.

Life is unique. Leadership is unique. The skills that work well for one leader may not work at all for another.
However, the fundamental skills of leadership can be adopted to work well for just about everyone: at work, in the community, and at home.